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Jealousy - the reverse of the medal - on other side there is Love. Someone says that the jealousy is born from mistrust, someone - that from own complexes … and we can talk about the reasons very long, but the fact all the same remains - the jealousy exists …we can certainly concerns to all event more easy … we can try to overcome it in ourselves and then there comes indifference which is in turn spread and on the second side of a medal … i.e. indifference comes not to action, but to the person …
Maybe someone is not agree, but personally i think only so, such way… I am the proprietor … it is awful too… and do u know why!?.... because I love and I DEMAND mutuality … it means only that I demand to myself as much attention as much I give, I demand to myself as much respect as I respect … and so on … and I think it fair … name it as u want - children's maximalism - maybe - I love a life in paints … the Woman who is with me NOT my property, but I expect that because of respect to me, I will not be done something unpleasant …
I do not come into another's life with my own requirements and I do not force anybody to love me … But I beforehand warn always that if my attention will prevail and mach, and there will not be feedback - my emotions will burn out …
I am not capable to bear the indifferent attitude. I in general try not to suffer of anything because it harmful to a moral and physical condition … and usually I get rid of that what gives, creates discomfort to me.
This time I do not do it because together with some discomfort I receive a lot of positive emotions, but the condition becomes worse, when I start to chase ideas … and now it occurs … Jealousy will destroy any relations if it is fed with occasions.
By the way, I think that in such plan mutual relations people endow a part of freedom, changing it on mutually pleasant society … if someone from the couple continues to live « a full life » - it is not relations any more, but just pastime and so there is no sense by way of prospects from it … - and I need perspective relations … therefore I spend on them time, feelings, emotions and so on …
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