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I know this question is not new and even in the blogs on this site there were posts on the such topics. So I decided to write my opinion here cos I consider this question rather interesting and important.
Men and women can definitely be friends without sex, if someone tells you otherwise, then they are missing out on a lot in life.
Just because someone happens to be a member of the opposite sex doesn't mean you have to have sex with him or her. I have very good friends of both sexes, and I go out with whomever happens to be available when I go out. I would not miss out on having my friends for the world.
If the person you are with doesn't trust you enough to go out with friends of the opposite sex, then there are some serious trust issues that need to be deal with. Also, if you were going out...why wouldn't you invite your significant other along? Don't you want to be with them? I would always invite them along.
Also, if you are not capable of going out with friend of the opposite sex and not have sex with them all, then that is your problem.
There IS more to life than sex. Sex is but one facet on the jewel that is life and relationships. Explore the other facets such as, intelligent conversation, hanging out, being there for a friend, helping someone out, giving praise...you know...all the good stuff you can do with all your friends, besides having sex with them.
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