Crash of modern relations.

Recently in each second blog of young people the subject of misunderstanding between men and women is discussed.

Have you noticed it too?

It surprises that people are ready to accuse everybody in all that does not arrange them in their life, instead of something to change?!

IS IT REALLY SO DIFFICULT TO START WITH YOURSELF AND RIGHT NOW?
Why instead of discussing, the person (whether it the guy or the girl) will not write, what good he sees in the partner, how he likes and what appreciates in the other person?

As an example, let's consider two situations:
1. The young man reads a blog of the girl in which only written how the scumbag the guy betrayed her (well, we do not speak about her inability to understand why it has taken place).. And in this text the young man only finds criticism, negative, aggression ... Certainly, similar sensations will appear at him... The same unpleasant feelings will provoke senseless dispute, which will not finish with anything, except misunderstanding.

2. The young man reads blog of the girl which speaks about what all young people outstanding, how we love all of you, and to live without you, the most marvelous, we can not at all. And it will be the beginning of warm and goods in relations.
I think, that many men have ceased to understand, what are they mean for us , and how they are necessary for us. They have ceased to feel themselves MEN and behave adequate and often women are guilty in it!
And on the other hand the situation not much more differs. All is interconnected, but everyone who wants understanding and love should begin with himself! First of all, the person should understand perfectly what he wants from another and not demand it until he himself is not capable to give the same!

And the most sad, that people have completely forgot to love, and not only others, but also themselves!