Sex and love.............the topic which is probably the most popular one on most peoples minds. There is a definite separation between the two, but that there doesn’t have to be. Sometimes we just want to be physical, maybe we are protecting something more intimate and vulnerable within us. But I’ve been there before and i know that sometimes, you just wanna be physical. But the truth is, there is such a huge energy exchange when you have sex with someone. By nature, having sex is actually a spiritual and emotional event..........whether we are closed off to that, or not. It is a sacred act, as much as our modern world tries to portray it as something frivolous.
And where does love come in? Well i think love comes in when you are willing to be "open" and experience that spiritual component. To me, that is where sex and love meet. Because i can love someone, care for them, care about their well-being, enjoy their presence in my life.........and then if I have sex with them, it takes things to a deeper (no pun intended) level. That’s just my take on it. Whether it was a one time thing or a long term relationship.......it seems that sex and love take 2 people to a very sacred place where we get to experience this profound stuff. It’s the meat and potatoes of being a human being, in my opinion. And that’s exactly because of how not easy it is to take the shroud off of your heart and be open and be willing to surrender to love and to be vulnerable.........