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Actually frequently the question appears « whether we really need love? » Maybe actually it is much easier to live without it. Nobody gets on your nerves, nobody worms into your confidence, you need not care of anybody, nobody will betray you, nobody will be late for a date, and so on. The love is not only kisses under the moon, beautiful declaration of love and mutual understanding - it is the responsibility and heavy work. Daily we fag on work, go on study, we get about stressful situations … And after such daysss you just don't want still any worries, you want banal have good sex with pleasant to you the person, without thinking about that it is necessary to say smth or do smth… You just want to relax. After some hours of rough sex without love and obligations to fall asleep sweet dream and better if alone that nobody take off a blanket and did not snuffle in an ear and early in the morning you brisk and easy will begin new day.
Now the life has changed so, that we live all day and night, constantly try to snatch smth, hurry up somewhere, not to lose smth and when in this round-the-clock rhythm of a life there love appears, destroying and breaking habitual way, we involuntarily start "to stumble". At work we do not hear the chief because we look only at phone waiting a treasured bell, we are inattentive because all our ideas and actions have lost the former practicality … and it is not a limit yet. If everything goes smoothly it is not most terribly, but in love crisis is inevitable and as soon as it has touched us, began irreparable, you are all fingers and thumbs, you want to do nothing, become zombie … but it is not also a limit yet, all only begins, then (by painful leaving), nervous frustration, antidepressants, alcoholic drinks. Hysterics, and sometimes even fights, attempts of suicide and so on …
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