Is it right to fall in love with the guy friend

This situation is rather often nowadays. First u just friends and then understand that something happens with u, u understand that this person is more then a friend for u.
A lot of people consider this situation not bad and even desirable. OK, I guess I will be one of the ones telling you to BEWARE of this situation. I want to tell u my story. i fell madly in love with my best friend of 6 years and spent the last year living with him. BEFORE the relationship we got along wonderfully. Liked the same things, had the same attitudes about life, etc etc. Now, after the breakup...well things definitely are NOT the same. I learned that our views on life are quite different when in a relationship sense. As friends we had not discussed his views on raising children compared to mine, his working and not being lazy, or how I like things neat and tidy and he doesn't feel any where near the same as I do. The break up wasn't bad, I don't do the whole "scream and argue because things went bad" thing. We are trying to salvage our friendship but it is quite evident that things will NEVER be the same between us. I used to talk to him about the guys I was seeing or interested in, that will never happen again. We used to hang out and just have fun being around each other, now we can't because he thinks that should warrant "friends with benefits". There are many aspects that now hinder our friendship that aren't going to just disappear. So, my advice to you is to really think this through and go into this knowing that you may be throwing away a perfectly good friendship for a "chance" at a relationship and if things don't work out, you lose 2 people in one shot, your boyfriend AND a close friend. I wish you luck in whatever you decide!