You are mixing up two different things: attraction and love.
Most men and women are searching for a meaningful relationship and enduring love.
The problem is that they are attracted to things that are not related at all with this. Men judge in 0.5 seconds a girl for its looks (and take another 5s appreciating her looks).
Girls go for a reaction based approach. How thrilling is that guy?
He is handsome? (I would be nice to appear next to this guy)
Does he have a nice car? (I would look so nice in his car)
Is he famous? (every girl would be jealous of me)
Does he have an exciting personality? (I bet I would have a great time going out with him)
Attraction works differently for guys and girls but it doesn’t have anything to do with love.
Changed: September 27, 2006, 11:27am