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France -> Michelle
June 1, 2006, 8:52am
 
I often hear from the men offended up to depth of soul: ` Girls search only mercantile relations! First ask, what apartment and car you have instead of name... `

And you, men what search? Slender legs and a tempting boobs...

The girl does not interest in you as a person? Has not estimated your many-sided soul?
And you take an interest in her as the person? And if she was five sizes more, want you date with her?...

He is indignant of injustice. ` You compare different things. Then she should choose me cose I am not the ugly or then I shall choose rich girls! It's right?... `

What does it mean right? You choose her but she choose you! And you want make her choose you like you consider right?! Why men break down, "She is interest only in my money" It's not so. Money attract her as her legs attract you.

And farther much depends on personal contact. Have you something more except for money? She will notice it and estimate.

Besides many beautiful girls are tired of that guys appreciate them first of all for their appearance.

We choose and also we are chosen... Only men and women have different criteria of a choice. So has developed. C'est la vie.

I shall not argue, that there is a LOVE from the first sight and up to the end of days, not connected with any criteria and not explained logically ... But in fact to meet it - is like to win a million in a lottery...
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September 27, 2006, 12:26pm
 
You are mixing up two different things: attraction and love.
Most men and women are searching for a meaningful relationship and enduring love.
The problem is that they are attracted to things that are not related at all with this. Men judge in 0.5 seconds a girl for its looks (and take another 5s appreciating her looks).
Girls go for a reaction based approach. How thrilling is that guy?
He is handsome? (I would be nice to appear next to this guy)
Does he have a nice car? (I would look so nice in his car)
Is he famous? (every girl would be jealous of me)
Does he have an exciting personality? (I bet I would have a great time going out with him)
Attraction works differently for guys and girls but it doesn’t have anything to do with love.

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June 5, 2006, 10:45am
 
 
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