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The jealousy inheres not in everyone and it takes prisoner gradually. People initially suspicious, explosive, with unstable character, the diffident, having psychological complexes, married not on love but because of everyday reasons are more inclined to jealousy. As a rule, people who are not self-sufficient, not sure in themselves feel the strong jealousy, or on the contrary people who are too self-confident and count the person "property". Jealous man first of all does not adore the woman. He sees neither her cleanliness, nor her sanctity... On the contrary, the woman for him is something sinful, mean, dissolute, false, lewd, dirty. He considers, that he never can believe her. That is his horror, he cannot be quiet even a minute. He thought that the woman is so dirty and dissolute, that she is ready to give herself to everyone. Jealous need not proofs. He composes them himself, invents them. It's enough for him, that she is too lively today, that she like to chat to somebody, that she was five minute late somewhere, that she is too cold with him, or too tender!.. He sees proofs against her in each gesture, in ruddiness, in mysterious smile, in each part of her body .
Life with the person who we love are an openness, it is relaxation of our soul, this permission him to be himself and pleasure because, he is in our life. If you give free rein to the partner and respect his interests thus you attach him more to yourselves and create more confidential relations. But all this is possible only when we value ourselves and we live, according to ourselves and our principles.
And what you think of it?
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