The mystery date

One of the most enlightening dates I have been on is when we played role reversal. I had to plan the date, drive the car, open the car door, open the door to the restaurant, talk to the waiter, decide what wine to order, order the meal for my honey, (without his input) and make conversation like this was our first date.

Wow! I did not know what it was like to be on the other side of the fence. Then I paid for the meal, opened the car door for my honey, and then drove him home and tried to get a kiss while he played hard to get. He said, "I do not kiss on the first date."


I gave him a massage, he is a Massage Therapist, and I tried to convince him all I wanted was to give him a Therapeutic Massage. I sure had other thoughts, like getting romantic, but he still played hard to get. I asked him, " when is this role playing going to be over?"

He replied, "midnight!" I could hardly wait for midnight to arrive. I was glad for things to be back to "the normal way."

We still have mystery dates several times a month and do role-reversals. It is fun thinking up exciting things to do and places to go.

You guys try the mystery date and let me know how it works out. (You do not have to do role-reversal, but it is fun).