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I've got a confession to make....
I hate boring people! It's true, I really do.
It doesn't take much to have fun when I go out with a girl. It's that male-female chemistry that makes jokes more fun, the drinks taste better and music more danceable.
So, I ask you... I do girls ruin a fun night out?
When I go out with my mates, I know for sure that we are going to have a great time. Somehow, with girls this is not always the case.
I think the difference is that with guys, everyone is competing for providing entertainment and this creates a positive feedback. I imagine girls sometimes are just willing to get entertained and are not willing to provide some entertainment themselves.
I've just realised this although now that I think about it, this happenned to me recently. After a very pleasant first date, the girl was just not the same in the second one. Maybe she was tired or something but the reality was that I was looking forward to the end of that date.
I think the girl is still into me but I don't expect calling her any time soon.
It is really too bad, but especially for her because she is the one with the very short friend list.
If you feed on someone's energy without giving it back, don't expect them to be coming around any time soon.
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