Sex And Fucking And Lovemaking

I often guess what's the difference between Sex and Fucking and Lovemaking? Explaine me to relieve my brains.

We all have our definitions....

Sex is the general catagory that encompasses all sexual acts.....

Making love involves tender feelings and involvement of the heart......a way to show another you care for them.

Fucking is the "raw" form of it all, emotions may or may not be involved. Anything from love to just give me that **** now.

At least in my mind that is how it is laid out.

Why yes, My dear, your mind is a wonderful wonderful thing ......

I must admit that whether fucking or making love, being the type of girl that I am.. I can not seperate sex and emotion. For me, both fucking and love making require me to feel love for you. Can I fantasize about someone that I do not love? sure..but in reality..if I dont love you, I cant fuck you...I dont know that my thinking is the majority rule or not, but it is the rule for me personally....

in my personal dictionary, there's no entry for "love-making." that's too hearts-and-flowers-sweet-sounding for what happens between my lovers and me.
in general, though, it seems that the term "love-making" is used in two ways - 1) to describe a more slow and tender variety of fucking, with lots of foreplay and sweetness - or 2) - a euphemistic way to describe every sexual act between a couple.
me, i prefer the energy and rawness that i hear in "fucking" - it's a semantic thing rather than a quantifiable measurement.
but to your question above: i don't believe that the two are mutually exclusive, at all.

as a amateur linguist, i love hearing people talk about this stuff. thanks for the nudge.

I think that this particular topic, using the term "making love" does not get enough discussion really.

I use the term when I am in love with someone and we are involved in expressing our love through our sensual, sexual, erotic connection. Those times are not free of "fucking", certainly, its just that for me, the word fucking embodies a lot of raw, hot sexual energy. Making love is more of an emotional, spiritual, sexual ritual and I would not walk away from the experience and say that I just fucked my girlfriend. I would process that experience differently.

On the other hand, if I understand that what is occurring is primal, hot, physical ecstasy...I can be in that space and not necessarily be in love.

So I think that many of us use the term in our own unique way. Take it from someone who loves to fuck..and loves to make love.

If you're masturbating are you having Sex?

i want all of this right now! the heat of passion, the moans of ecstasy, her touch all over me, the hot passionate kissing, looking into her eyes as i have an amazing orgasm, saying her name...time for a cold shower now! lol!

Girl I know just what
I've been missing
I wanna be the one you're kissin'
So open up your arms and listen
I wanna get to ya

The way I feel
I know this love is real
Baby, I'm head over heels for you

Sex and Fucking and Lovemaking. And I think its the single most wonderful gift the Creator could give us. I realize that sex is sometimes tainted and used by the evil people to control, manipulate, hurt, take advantage of or whatever other messed us reasons they have.
But if it is used the way it is intended, I believe it puts good energy into the Universe.

Interesting questions...

In my mind, making love would take longer than fucking.

I think of love making and fucking as two different things. But I also think each can involve the other components depending upon factors such as, the dynamics of whatever fantasy is being played out, ect.

Its seems that sometimes a relationship can start out with just fucking, and over time can turn into love-making.
Thats just my opinion, tho.

making love should be saved for those precious moments when you are to freakin tired to FUCK!

Sex is natural
sex is good
Not everybody does it
But everybody should

Like most things, the merits of and reasons for sex cannot be treated glibly.

There's a whole heap of reasons why you can have sex. EMR has the main categories right, but then inside each of those there's subcategories as well I guess... your funsex could be a booty call, it could be a nameless hook, it could be fuckbuddies for instance. Each one of these rewards the participants in a different way, and the same goes for subgroupings of lovesex and reprosex.

If all you want is physical release, stay home and masturbate. Sex is a physical function, but sex drive is an emotional function. As I've matured well, gotten older is probably more accurate, I've found that at different times I've wanted different things. Sometimes I've just wanted some nice clean hooker for a stamina challenge (no dount to stroke my own ego), sometimes I want the thrill of the chase more than the kill at the end, and sometimes I just want to connect with my partner. What feels right this week/month/season just doesn't cut it for me later on.

If people want to have funsex only, then I see no problems with it. Very few people manage to do it longterm, though. Old Dr Jealousy gets his face all up in your shit sooner or later, and then he brings along Captain Guilt and Mrs Causing-A-Scene-In-Front-Of-Your-Friends-Or-Relatives is never far behind either.

If it's not for having babies, then it's just for fun. Why do you need love for that?
Like love, there are all levels of sex.
There is fucking, love making, and masturbation with hips, to name a few. Sex without love or emotional attachment has all the weight and import of a casual tennis match.

With that said, historically, children represented the future/security of the clan, and the road to children is sex. If you take any of that seriously, you must take sex (as in penetration) seriously.

If a child is conceived, how can someone not taking the act seriously take the responsibility seriously? While I am pro-choice, I am firmly against abortion as a form of birth control.

I love sex. I'm prolly an addict. But I'm also frank about the responsibility of playing God for pleasure. There is no guaranteed birth control. Engaging in sex without consideration of the ramifications is the very kind of myopic immaturity that has led us to where we are today, which, while not all bad, is not half so good as it could be.

Okay as a lucky single guy I've had the oppurtunity of being welcomed into the bedrooms of a few couples many several times over. I've been the live dildo that was fucked and it doesn't feel too good. Those are the minority as I learned that I can't do that and it seems a good number of couples (the sane ones it would seem) can't either. For the most part I've taken to calling it "playing".

Well this one couple that I've been chatting with for a good 2 years now is almost free to meet (schedules have sucked on both sides but we kept chatting). The problem is the more we chat the more she refers to how much she wants to "make love" to me.

:confused:

Um...okay. My number one rule, especially after being used almost like a live dildo, is that I would never ever ever come between a married couple. Its easy for the most part since most of the people I play with are 10 years older than me but in this case her insistence on saying how she wants to "make love" to me weirds me out.

At first I thought she likes gentle sex which is fine with me and I'd much rather know that ahead of time instead of meeting the husbands fist first hand. However it seems that I'm wrong cause she's talking more and more about emotion. Now don't get me wrong I consider the couple I'm meeting now (different from the one I'm talking about) to be good friends and I care about them but never would I say I'm making love to the wife.

Does anyone know what I'm talking about here? I barely do but I know that her refering to our future play time as "making love" is weird. any thoughts?

If it was me, I'd RUN as fast as my legs could take me away from this woman. She appears to have no distinction between making love and having sex/getting fucked. And there is a very very BIG distinction between the two.

I don't buy into the premise that she may have a problem saying screw or fuck. There are many other words that can be used that don't imply any interjection of emotions such as boink.

You need to have a serious talk with her and find out where her head is at and bring up the fact that you don't make love to her because there's no emotional ties but you would boink her.

Go to Tennessee, especially the Nashville area and EVERYONE calls you "hun" from the grocery store checker on up.

For the record Mrs Fun and I as well as everyone else we know, "play" or just plain fuck. Making love is reserved for us and us only.

These facts in mind I would be very wary of the dynamics of your situation.

Being a single guy, it's not really hard for me to let the difference be known. People call me hun or sweetie because I've been told I'm very likeable. I had the wife of a couple start showing up at my apartment while her husband was at work telling me that she really thought we could be close 'friends' and we could 'fuck' each other without the husband because they're so 'open' with their marriage. I respectfully declined. The next time we were all together he told me it was alright with him for me to 'screw' his wife while he wasn't around because he has several girls 'on the side' too. But hey, we could all be happy and care and love one another. Yeah Right!!! I no longer see these clowns. They're divorced now. When you're in a swinging situation, you're 'fucking'. When you're with your partner you're making love.:bj:

As for me whatever words I use fuck, sex or lovemaking there is no difference fore me. I love both these actions….the more the better. My puss’s wet and wanna fuck like my ass hole either. I’d call all these words PLEASURE.

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